Virgo men are kiss and tell a holes. If you’re saying the sex was bad then you shouldn’t settle either honey. I was the one who initiated the break up, b/c he was acting so cold and distant. Share your story (or situation) with our community in the comment section below (don’t worry, it’s anonymous). Be candid and tell him the absolute truth. He also does not like to appear weak in any way or show his fears or insecurities. As in, we are so alike that it’s scary. I didn’t hesitate to apologise when I noticed he was acting cold. Hey everyone, I’m a Taurus, and my Virgo man has been so distant and cold toward me lately. →. This makes them off kilter to themselves and finds it hard to relate what they’re feeling. just last mon he just send a message telling im better off to find a man who will truly love me and even more than i deserve. How to Get a Taurus Man to Have a Crush on You, How to Get an Aries Man to Have a Crush on You, How to Get a Pisces Woman to Have a Crush on You, How to Get an Aquarius Woman to Have a Crush on You, How to Get a Capricorn Woman to Have a Crush on You. In the beginning we were so deeply in love with each other, he talks so good, gentle and gives everything to me. It doesn’t cover all the variances that come with what may be in their chart. They are riddled with constant thoughts and feelings which makes them critical of themselves as well as others. I’m the one that’s done! But 2 weeks later of the trip, he started to distance from me, and finally broke it off a week later for religious reasons. I really like this virgo man, but I also like myself and my heart and at this point I just can’t take it anymore and I don’t know if this is worth it all, the pulling and letting go over and over again…. Even if you love him, you’ve got to stand your ground. if i say something, ill get shunned bc women ultimately dont wanna be w a man who voices his insecurities. If he comes back fine… if he doesn’t fine. When a Virgo man wants you … Also, if you're a female, never flirt with a Virgo's man. Don’t let that happen. Signs a Virgo Man Is Done With You When a Virgo man becomes excessively critical, you should expect that his feelings toward you have diminished. I’m trying to compromise SO hard with this man. He did too? If you don’t then the problem will never resolve. If you notice that he is increasingly demanding or difficult, then he likely is done with you. I can’t believe how cold and cruel a person can be. When he’s really mad at me, he will refuse to answer me, even in person. I know one quite well and everyone that has ever been around him says he’s a sweetheart. They can go cold when they’re done too but, to 100% know for sure, it’s a good idea to just go ahead and blatantly ask him so you can at least get an answer. Has he left you feeling as though he’s over you and has moved on? I don’t want to let him go. It’s better to just talk to him. Virgo men are complicated. He didn’t give me a clear answers but said he’d met someone else. I’m sorry you have a bad experience with a Virgo man. He’s more likely to listen if you can sit down and talk to him about how you feel without actually showing the emotion. He cared about me initially because I was in an abusive relationship with another man. It’s better to go ahead and pull that band-aid off and get it over with. He wants to hurt you or make you mad. Stand up and tell him exactly how you feel. He is not giving me a definitive answer at the same time doesn’t resume. Why do I have to stay patient with a virgo man, when he can do the same for me. Many Virgo men can actually be single all of their lives and be alright with it. I’ve never loved like this, and when things are good, he says the same. You said “he doesn’t want a relationship, he is destined to be alone, or that he doesn’t want to talk”…. but the coldness and lies are all there he has had a hardtime but can let me go until i found out on my own and ended it. Don’t try to fix them. As such he could very well just tell you that he is done. It sounds like you two need to really get everything out on the table in a neutral setting. Virgo men prefer a woman who will actually stand up for themselves and not be door mats. So he has a valid point. As a Virgo man makes the decision to break up with you, is likely that he will focus his emotional and intellectual energy elsewhere. or indeed Virgo remained in its founding? If you notice that he’s suddenly started pointing out all the things that are wrong with your relationship; this could mean that he’s already on the way out with you. 10. He outrightly sed i should never call him to ask for such favors again. 3 months later we were back together and now it has been 5 1/2 years. Don’t ever become weak or submissive though because he’ll lose respect and the relationship may be lost. I knew something was wrong. Exactly! Unfortunately, everything changed when he began a new job and he hasn’t worked in a long time. If a Virgo man becomes more sharp and inconsiderate, then you may realize that he is done with you. Once you begin the tragic circle of jumping through hoops to mold, shift and change for him, he will lose a great deal of respect for you. I think he probably did like you but felt that the feeling he wants to feel with someone just wasn’t there. They’re hard to understand but there is hope! Eventually, he tried to convince me that marriage, children, and all of it was all my idea. The meaner he is, the more accommodating I am while growing emotionally distant. There are rare instances where some may cheat but it would have to be caused by narcissism or perhaps another aspect in their chart making them more suceptible to such an action. Meanwhile, he is burying himself in his work and refuses to write me and call me. Which is reassuring, but I also overanalyze and overthink. What makes them move? If you need more help though, you can check out my book “Virgo Man Secrets”. That isn’t what I said or wanted, what the ___? When he becomes unhappy or is ready to call it quits, again, he goes opposite. If he still doesn’t reply, you’re going to have to consider moving on. My name is Anna Kovach, and I’m a Relationship Astrologer. I am very heart broken for a month and a half. Then from there, I was really hurt and kind of blurted what happened to my parents around Father’s Day and my Dad grounded me for ruining Father’s Day. Compromise is good but only if it’s a two way street. A Virgo falling out of love is equally insensitive to them. The Virgo man is fine with being on his own so when he starts to date, you can be sure it means the relationship is sincere. But I feel trapped and like I’m wrong if I keep trying to leave him. I have been doing a lot of self work and even going to see a counsellor. In public settings, he may express his feelings by rolling his eyes or cutting you off. In fact, they are engaged! She won't give you a chance to pick a flaw in her efforts for you. He said that no he needs his space and he doesnt want to be with me but that he doesnt know what the future has in store. Hi, I had been so thoughtless. Is that worth it? I hope he answers you though, you deserve the truth! The last time I’ve seen him before he went MIA, he was telling me if he wasn’t married that he would love to be with me. However, I can’t hold up much longer and am trying to figure out how we can either continue the relationship on a better note without him resenting me or have a non messy mutual break up. This makes them an enigma. I replied with a simple Ok. I stupidly said something to him on the way up the porch to my house when I went home about how a year ago he would’ve helped me carry this bag up the stairs, that he wasn’t being much of a gentleman, he stood midstep and said I never thought of that and gave me my videogame and began walking down the stairs backwards. Their stubborn side will come out instead. i dont know whats going on and i need answers.. i have reached out and left messages , called ,everything in my power to contact him and nothing … never been in this type of situation before, pls helwe talked before he did the ghost move and i asked him if he still wanted to be in the relationship, i even offered to start over between the two and he said he would like that , i tried to reassure him that i am not going anywhere i love him and he knows there is no one else. There is so much more you probably want to know and can find in my book “Virgo Man Secrets”. Today we talked and he said his feelings are too strong for me and it’s not that he doesn’t love me or care about me, he doesn’t want to talk. 8 Clear Signs a Virgo Man Is in Love with You 1. If you live with him he’ll avoid eye contact with you and will speak minimally if, at all. But can we talk? A Virgo woman is a complete person – she has all charms and tricks that not all female have; significantly, she’s not weak. But his last words were that he wants to be close to God and relationships in general are sinful. As you continue to learn about what happens when a Virgo man is done with you, it is certain that you will realize that his frustrated and vexed behaviors are indications of his true feelings. I’ve been in a relationship with a Virgo for 13 years with 2 kids,married for 7 years,I’m an Aries woman ,me and him started dating when we were still teenagers,now we are both in our early 30ts,when we started it was everything was perfect, I used to be his Queen, he was open and gave me attention, this guy made me felt special. Virgos thrive on deep and intellectual connections. I had been with this virgo man for more than 7 years who is born on 4th sept. Beginning of the relationship was awesome, he treated me very well giving me a lot of attention telling me how wonderful I am. I asked him if there is any way he could give me a chance to prove I can be the partner he wanted me to be and i apologized. Two days of no communication really isn’t anything in the grand scheme of things. When a Virgo woman is ready for a commitment, she will completely melt with you. I became suspicious if there was someone else in his life. That being said, I think he’s probably trying to figure out if he can be in a relationship or if he wants to be alone. I replied him 3 weeks later saying thank you for break up coz it changed my life. As a Scorpio I hate being compared to anyone and I found that this virgo woman was constantly comparing me to her ex wife. I have moved on! As far as Astrology, it’s a whole lot more than just sun signs so don’t make Astrology out to be something not true. He tends to be critical when he’s in love because he cares. These will be more of the obvious signs you can come across. I was convinced last week that he wants to break up with me but doesnt know how to. The thing is, Virgo men are known for being critical of others and themselves as well. Okay guys i’ll spill the tea, dont think virgo men are all sweet and gentleness. You need to know what it is he wants and what he wants you to do. He would always told me he loved and cared about me. Our problem started 3 years ago after the birth of our 2 nd child,he started distancing himself from me,we live together but he would go out at come back drunk late at night,he stopped communicating or he lies about his whereabouts, he wouldn’t call,text anymore or even return my calls,so I find out he was cheating I then broke it off we had a bad breakup because i was tired of him acting like a victim,I was very angry cos I wanted him to tell what went wrong but I didn’t get an answer from him,he didn’t even apologise he kept denying the affair even though I had a proof, To be honest I’m not proud of what did but I was very angry and acted on my emotions, I decided to revenge on him and destroyed everything he owned ,from cellphone, clothes and his new car ,I was so mad that I wanted to leave him with nothing..I swear if he’d stopped me I was kill him luckily he did not,he called the police on me to report the matter but I didn’t get arrested but I broke up with him and sent him packing,he left to stay with his mother, Even though we separated he would come at least 3 times a week to check the kids,but both of us were not talking to each other,I then told him I don’t feel comfortable that he still come to our house, I was scared because he wouldn’t talk about what I did to his stuff ,so in my mind I thought he was planning a revenge secretly, so he stopped coming,he would call and I would ignore his call sometimes until one day he came back with his belongings and moved back in,slowly we started fixing things until we were back together again that was in 2017. Virgo men do not have the same time frame as everyone else. How to Start a Conversation With a Gemini Man, Numerology 33: The Meaning of the Number 33. I tried NC but after week I texted him and asked how was he doing. Hi Leslie! He was the love of my life. Say, “Hey I’m truly sorry if I hurt you in any way. I am hurt because I don’t know where this came from there were no signs that I saw I love him more than I’ve ever loved anybody but I can’t fight for you if you’re done I’m not the stalker type but I need to know if its completely over and why. If you’re not happy with him though then perhaps you should move on without his permission or input. Your email address will not be published. Done? Hi Sag! He told me that he does tend to go silent and bottle up his feelings when he’s in a depression and when I started to sense him being distant, I asked if it had anything to do with me (hooray for being a blunt capricorn). If I were you, I’d message him and ask him flat out what the problem is and if he intends to talk to you again or not. He will have to tell you the truth. Ever since the day of court he has been distant. he’s ignoring me for quite sometime now.. nothing went wrong though.. why are virgos so likeable??!? He’ll point out all the things you have in common. Virgos are known for their ability to be a bit bossy at times… some have been known to even call them a ‘slave driver’ . Here are some of the signs a Virgo woman likes you enough to see you as a long term partner. Stay positive and if he messages you, message him back and be your normal sweet self. He texts me all day through the day every day and buys me gifts now and again. I am a scorpio and very emotional. Virgo men do not take relationships lightly which is why they take forever before they actually break up if that’s what they’re really after.